"My dear [husband/wife] deserves the best. Send [him/her] the Ale with my love."
"What happens if I provide Ale as a gift to my [husband/wife]?"
Maester Lucas reads. "[Your Spouse] is flattered by your heartfelt gift, but [he/she] proposes Ale as a more fitting tribute to your loving relationship."
Lucas responds. "You'll spend more Silver on your [husband/wife] and [he/she] will rejoice over your loving and passionately intoxicating gift."