Basically, the Lady of War is a female fighter who retains an air of grace and reserve not usually associated with violence. If not an actual princess, she tends to be otherwise highly placed, or at least look and act like it. If she's not a gentle-mannered Yamato Nadeshiko, she may be Tall, Dark and Bishoujo or arrogant and generally prissy and might become subject to a Defrosting Ice Queen scenario. Often, she's simply The Stoic. Also expect her Impossibly Cool Clothes to still reflect her position. She might even wear a Battle Ballgown. A pre-teen Lady of War is always Little Miss Badass.