You're the bully is a silencing tactic sometimes used against people making complaints. Like You're the sexist, it attempts to turn around accusations of bad behaviour on the person who was originally the victim of it or is calling it out. "You're the bully" relies on the recently increased awareness of bullying, especially online bullying, as an issue. It characterises any negative online attention as bullying. Victim-blaming or Concern trolling statements can involve