Eleanor's gravestone does not exist within Veronaville, so she can't be made playable without the use of hacks. As a result, the only indication of Eleanor's existence is provided by the family tree of her descendants. According to her SimDNA in SimPE, her hair was blonde before it turned grey. Eleanor has no memories of her husband, and although she has the memory of doing WooHoo with Mystery Sim, she doesn't have the memory of Anne's birth. So basically apart from the WooHoo memory, she only has Create a Sim memories.