To whoever is reading this, I really really really hope you share this special secret with me. First of all, - just for some background: My mom died right when I was born, (she was actually really, really hot- but this isn't about her. I guess that's ****** up to say, but whatever.) I actually grew up with my dad's family, because my dad has all sorts of emotional issues and he bailed before I was born. So you can see, my childhood was really kind of messed up. A little while later she actually wound up with my friend from before (the sexual tension guy). I can't say I was surprised.