Spongebob is a cartoon character. He is a fictional character. He is not real. If you are asking for yourself, look to a big brother or sister. Look to your parents. Find something that you're interested in and find someone in that field that you can look up to as a role model. If you are asking as an older person about his influence on kids...step up. Be the role model. Don't let a cartoon character take your spot in someone else's life.