"A frequent response to complaints of sexism is advice about how the individual who is experiencing sexism should respond to it on a personal level. This keeps the conversation away from a discussion of systemic problems and puts the burden for stopping sexist behavior on the marginalized person who has been its target. \n* It sets the tone or framing for appropriate responses to an incident of sexism \n* It implies that complaining about sexism is only legitimate if the complainer has been taking activist steps that \"count\" in the perspective of the advice-giver \n* It implies that the advice-giver is in a position to judge or criticize the marginalized person \n* It shuts down the conversation by falsely presenting the problem as solved \n* Related to You should be flattered, Unsolicited critique, Unsolicited revenge fantasies"@en . . "Unsolicited advice"@en . "A frequent response to complaints of sexism is advice about how the individual who is experiencing sexism should respond to it on a personal level. This keeps the conversation away from a discussion of systemic problems and puts the burden for stopping sexist behavior on the marginalized person who has been its target."@en .